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*ox2010
writes:I was having friendly sex with a guy i then meet his house mate. We get on really well, and we made out like teenages. There are a few problems. He says he dosnt want a relationship. He had a bad breakup but it was afew years ago and he dosnt want to upset his house mate. However, when we are together we have so much fun and he says he likes me and cant beleave his so lucky,but he then gets cold and i dont know if he wants me to go over there. We also havnt had sex. Im wondering if he cant..... Would that make him freakout everytime we have a nice time together or is it just that he really dosnt want a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, fox2010 +, writes (4 January 2010):
fox2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help guys, the house mate is fine with it, we went out for abit but it just didn’t workout, we became closer and good mates when we stopped going out.
As for not valuing my sexuality, in fact I do value it alot, I love the fact im forward and confident, im a size 16 and couldnt be more happy with my sexuality or my body, I dont just give it to anyone, I really like this guy.
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reader, fox2010 +, writes (3 January 2010):
fox2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I think your right and that sounds like a good idea, thankyou.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 January 2010):
It might be two things. First of all, you've been with his housemate, so maybe he just doesn't' want to go there and cause problems. Secondly, maybe he just needs more time to get over this other girl. Probably best to leave him alone at the moment.
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