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writes:Okay so Im 14, and I have an issue I hate. I wanna no if its normal to want someone to love you and hold you like a boyfriend haha. Like half of the day I wish I had someone like that. And when someone shows interest in me, im to scared to talk to them. I always try dating sites and crap and im sick of it. :p Anyone got any advice on how to stop and actually find someone?? (or have the courage to talk to someone) :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 ok, your 14, and want a boyfriend relationship, OF COURSE THATS NORMAL! but being shy isnt going to get you anywhere lovely, youve got to come across as confident and chatty, thats what boys like! girls who are desperate for a boyfriend will date anyone who comes along, dont be like that, make sure you choose the nice ones. this means if you choose the horrible popular ones they may turn you down in a horrible way, go 4 the nice ones so if he doesnt think you are for him, hell say it in a nic3, mature way!
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reader, stella-confused/angry +, writes (4 January 2010):
yourb only 14 take it slow first find someone u know likes you and you like them or just find someone you like then ask one of your friends to ask them about stuff get the information practice talking to them on the phone or on msn or facebook or something you both have so you can talk to them without seeing them then ask them to come and meet if u still fill like running away then only nod your head or say mmhhmn it doesn't matter just be cool with him then after some 25 minutes pretend to be cinderella and make a disappearence scene an escuse like " i promised my sister that i would help her " is classic then continue talking to him on on the phone or like i said before tbhen ask him out again this time laugh at least then for like an whole hour let him do thew talking and you the rest then you have to make up an escuse again . practice this as many times as possible and think of many escuses as possible . xxx stella-confused/angry
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reader, ChelsieSue +, writes (4 January 2010):
 welll, i had the same problem when i was like 13, i'm 15 now and i stilll get buttterflys when i go to see my boyfriend. allthough i love it when he hugs me and we cuddle, i stil am nervous. and we've beeen dating for almost 5 months. bahahaa. just loook deeep down in and find the courage to ask a guy for his number, or if you already have it, text him. you'lll eventuallly get over the scaredness. and when you get a boyfriend, you'll love alll his kisses and hugs with no nerves:)
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reader, chorn95 +, writes (4 January 2010):
Im 14 too, and to be honest it is normal to feel like that. Everyone wants someone to be with that will make them happy. I won't suggest dating sites, just leave it to luck. I hope your'll find someone to be happy with
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