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female
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anonymous
writes:Help me please, i really cant stop thinking about this guy, i met him in may last yr and swapped numbers, then stoped talking then in october, we started talking again, and hit it off really well, i met him 3 times and slept with him twice, the thing is now we have stoped talking again, and its not like hes the first person i have slept with cuz its not,Ive sent him a text at xmas saying merry xmas and a new year text but have nothing,But i also find myself driving round his house, wanting 2 knock on the door, but cant do it,But its really driving me mad that whatever i do i always seems to me being bk onto thinking about him, and we wasnted going out so dont really no why i am thinking about him constently, The reason why we are not talking is to do with an ex What can i do to make this better for me????PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME XXXXXXX
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (3 January 2010):
 I agree with Caring Guy. This man used you and he is making it obvious that he is not available to you. If he wanted to have relationship with you or keep you as a friend, he would have answered your text.
To make this better for yourself, you need to read the second sentence of my response over and over again and believe it. Erase his number from your phone and that includes deleting all his messages you might have saved and delete his number from your call logs. From now on your life is about you. Concentrate your energy on you. You are more important than he is. You cannot control how he or indeed others behave towards you but you CAN CONTROL how you feel about yourself and how you treat yourself.
Good luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
You have been used. He used you I'm afraid. I am sorry. Now you need to move on, or you'll become obsessed with him. If he was truly interested, he would have got into contact with you. You need to move on.
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