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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfreind have been together for almost a year now. we really love each other but theres just one problem- we still haven't slept together. We both really want to but whenever we try it just doesn't happen. He looses his erection and can't get inside me We're both virgins,and i was just wondering if anyone could offer some advice because it's really getting to both of us. we both don't really now what we're doing.
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reader, lazyman87 +, writes (3 January 2010):
i agree with all previous answers about nerves.
you need to get used to being naked around each other, maybe try bit of mutual masturbation first. given time it will be ok, just not yet.
best of luck. relaxation is the key for the two of you.
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (3 January 2010):
 I agree with the previous answers. And stick to foreplay for now. Get used to being naked with each other, give hand jobs etc eventually, it will just happen naturally.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 January 2010):
Caring guy has it in one.
It's nerves that cause him to lose it and he gets nervous that it's going to happen and round and round in circles you go.
Stop trying for sex for a while and just stick to foreplay. (although stick a condom on him if you both plan to be naked, we get SO MANY "he came on me but not in me, could I be pregnant????" questions here.)
Once you've both had a few good times being relaxed around eachother you might find it just happens naturally.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
It's nerves, and the more you both worry about it, the worse it will get. stop worrying about sex, and provide each other with foreplay. Its not you, it's just that he's nervous about it all. He and you both need to be relaxed.
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