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Is he only interested because I am unavailable?

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Question - (3 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I am in an unhappy relationship for over 7 years. Have a child but do not feel relationship is going any where.

Have developed a crush on another man who knows my bf. Whenever I see him he acts nervous and keeps staring at me when I am not looking. We have spoken about things in the past. He and I do the same job. Both professionals. He is a single parent and his family really like me including his mum!

Is he only interested because I am "unavailable" or has he got a general attraction to me? He wont move it on. I feel it may be because he is fairly friendy with my so to be called bf.

Any advice welcomed. thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

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Thanks for your words. I will try and speak to bf. I want to get married. I dont like living on my own and spending most of holidays on my own.

I am going to give him an ultimatium. He may be happy like this but I'm not.

thanks again and if you dont mind I would like to keep you posted of progress as I like your responses.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2010):

He likes you, but he knows your boyfriend and he knows you're unavailable, so won't move on it. I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel in your relationship though. Maybe you cab make it work and fix it, or maybe it would be better to move on. But avoid getting involved with anyone else until you've sorted your current relationship out.

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