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female
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30-35,
*mjo
writes:Me and my boyfriend have a perfect relationship, he's loving and caring, attentive and passionate, basically everything a girl could want, obviously it has its little problems however in general its good. The problem is when we drink i always end up arguing with him. I say things that i dont mean and it all ends up being a horrid mess.This would be okay however ive never been like this with anyone else... normally its all fun and games but when i'm with him its like all the little things that have ever bugged me about us come right up to the surface!Why only with him?! Why never before?! Whats wrong with me?!HELP!
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (3 January 2010):
Your insecure with this dude.can you trust him? is he really as perfect as you say?Orare you being naughty? have you done something wrong?are you keeping things from him??have a thinkx
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reader, Brooklyngirl  +, writes (3 January 2010):
 Apparently, there are issues that you suppress until alcohol brings them out. Maybe not the mean things you say (and don't really mean)
There's a totally different dynamic with your friends. You are on a different emotional level.
If you don't want this to destroy your relationship, you might want to curb your drinking when with your partner!
If alcohol is causing problems...It Is A Problem!
Take a long hard look at that!
Good Luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
First of all, stop the drinking. He is your boyfriend, so he's the closet person to you. Sadly, we tend to take everything out on the nearest person to us. That's what you're doing. And perhaps there are unresolved issues in the relationship you both need to address?
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