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30-35,
*lltheabove1212
writes:Sort of felt up my abs at a party(she was sober). Touched my shirt where my stomach was.Smiles with me.Said she had a really fun time with me.Told me how she wanted to ask me all week to go to dinner with just the two of us.I saw her at breakfast and she seemed kind of nervous but said she had a really good time with me and wanted to see us again tonight.We've been decent friends for a while, but never the buddy-buddy stuff.We went on a drive together to get some food. We hung out and talked in the parked car for about an hour total and shared a slushie. She complimented on the way I dress.When I asked why all of the sudden she wanted to hang out, she said she thought I was the coolest one in the group. She kind of struggled with answering the question.**A few days later she texted me saying “the reason i wanted to was because she wanted to be with the people who mattered to her the most/made her feel like she mattered to them. So.. : )yeah”She has told me she wanted me to "text her later" a few times.Insisted on making a cd for me of songs she thinks I would like.Overall it seems like she worries about what I think about her.Invited me and a few of her friends to get coffee last night. She said how she "secretly liked" some song. I recalled when she said she "secretly hated me". She tried to explain what she meant and said she "secretly loved me but (exp...(some weird word) hated me). I said "Ok so you secretly love me..." She interrupted "I secretly admire you and (something something)"^^Was that a cover up. Maybe she didn't want to sound desperate?Thanks for any help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2010): She likes you....a lot! Ask her out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): You don't say in your question whether you like her or not. Maybe it's obvious but I don't see it.
I'll assume you do and just say, what the hell are you playing at? Dude if you want this girl then stop playing games trying to figure out whether she likes you or not and ask her out.
What are you a girl? (no offence) but you sound like you're asking us which dress matches your hair so you can make this girl like you and ask you out.
You're the man, it does seem like she likes you but there is only one way to find out. So if you like this girl just stop waiting around and ask her out.
You're young so maybe you don't get this, you don't need concrete evidence of interest to ask a girl out, just assume whatever girl you're interested in is and ask her out. Seriously, you're the guy, you take the lead, you ask her out. Some women lose interest very quickly because while they're trying to get you to ask them out and if you don't do it then they'll think you're not interested if you're still just hanging around trying to figure that out. They'll move on or get asked out by someone else.
Dude girls your age get asked out weekly, they get chatted up all the time. So someone else might get there before you and you know what, the fact that the girl made such an effort to make you like her and it didn't work is going to make it very easy for the next guy to get her.
You see girls can only go for so long before they start to feel dejected that you didn't make a move and will just about get with any guy just to feel desired.
Stop trying to read signs dude, you're obviously really bad at it because the only thing this girl could do to be any more obvious is tie a ribbon around her naked body and offer herself to you, something tells me even then you'd sit there wondering whether this is a sign that she likes you or not.
These are the only signs that you should make a move. 1. girl seems happy to see you whenever you meet. 2. she makes an effort talk to you when you meet her. 3. she smiles a lot and makes a lot of eye contact.
That's it dude, if she does those things then make your move, ask her out. That's all you need for a green light. Even if you meet a girl in a bar for the first time and she displays the above characteristics then you're in.
Stop messing around like a little school girl with a crush on a teacher, be man and go for it, she's there for the taking.
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