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writes:There was a guy I was dating a few years ago but things didn't get serious as the timing was off. I got back together with an x.boyfriend. We stayed friends and in contact via facebook. I ran into him on the weekend (Saturday) at a friends. We really hit it off again. We ended up getting hot and heavy (no sex) but he also told me he just got dumped recently and was upset about it. Their relationship was only 3 months. I figured it was over for good. He told me he would call me the next day but didn't. I text him and he was very brief but friendly. He still hasn't contacted me. I have a feeling that he got back together with his x. I wish he would have just told me. Should I confront him about it. I kind of feel used. I know he doesn't owe me anything but simply an update would be nice as we have been friends for a long time. He is also close friends of mine. I would love some advise please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): I'm sorry but it sounds like you were his rebound. Play it cool and let him come to you, it might take awhile but see if the feelings are still there when he get's back in contact. But dont put your life on hold waiting for him, live your life and see who else is out there that might be better for you.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 He sounds like he was on a rebound from the x girlfriend and now he has got back with her seeing as he is now avoiding you. I would just leave it now and see if he does get back to you. Its very early on and you've already got over him. Are you prepared to go through it all again. Try to think about why he is your x and work things through in your mind about that. Be strong. If he really wanted to make a go of it he would have been in touch.
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