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female
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writes:Something Strange Happened to me... i had no deep experience in sex but i knew a lot of information from my friends, one week ago i was with my boyfriend and he tried to penetrate i feel pain so he stop a little bit and repeat after that he enters his finger what surprises me that i feel no pain, and i had never make sex before him after that he tried to penetrate it all and about 3/4 of it entered i felt that there is still kind of lock inside i did not feel so much pain, and no blood comes out, he is insisting taht i lost my virginity, but i am feeling not...please help me to know...
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 You did lose your virginity. Penetration, however slight, is enough to end your virgin status.
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female
reader, k_c100  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Yes you lost your virginity. You had a penis inside your vagina - therefore you lost your virginity.
Not all women feel pain when they lose their virginity, and many women dont bleed. This is because your hymen (the membrane that covers your vagina) can be easily broken, through playing sports, using tampons etc. Therefore it is VERY common not to bleed at all because your hymen may have already been broken early on in life through non-sexual activity.
Basically all 'virgin' means is someone who has never had sexual intercourse - so before you had the penis inside you then you were a virgin, but now you have had your boyfriend inside me then you are not a virgin. Simple as that.
Blood and pain have nothing to do with virginity - it is simply the act of having a penis inside your vagina.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, steph007  +, writes (21 December 2010):
Only a doctor or midwife could tell it what is the real status there, but practically you may say that you are not virgin anymore. The best thing you can do now is to repeat the experiment and loosing your virginity for sure. For you this is a nice benefit to do it twice.
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