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writes:OK my BF's BFF is now single. I didn't really mind if she was taken but I know she loves him. She told him herself after she found out about me. And now It sort of bothers me because it's long distance. And yesterday I asked my dad, who unfortunately was a bit of a player, if you can be 'just friends' with the opposite gender, and he replied saying, "You always want them to be more." Now, I've heard this from a lot of people, even non-player ones. And I'm really concerned. He's been talking to me less, and seems more distant but I don't want to let him go. I love him to much. But I don't want to make everything uncomfortable by asking her myself (over FB) if she is with Josh. Because then she'll tell my BF and he'll think I don't trust him. But all of my friends also say I should dump him because he makes so many comments about my weight. (I'm 155 but look about 120) SO basically I'm totally confused on what to do, what to believe and basically everything! Gah, what should I do? Confront her and deal with the consiquences or just let my imagination eat away at me until I burst and start yelling at her over the phone... Gah!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 December 2010):
 It's not her fault. She has every right to like whoever she wants. You have no right to be mad at her if she likes your boyfriend. It's your boyfriend that you should be concerned with. He would be the one cheating.
This is a major reason why LDR's just don't work in most cases. How long have you been together? How often do you see each other in person?
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