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writes:Hi,I was in a relationship two years ago of which one day i received a call from a lady posing to be my boyfriend wife, i was shocked but when i confronted my boyfriend he said it was all a lie then a 8months ago i received a sms from my boyfriend saying that he has a wife now. i was mad but since i love him, i accepted. a month ago he came to my work place i told my colleagues that he has a 10months year old. then few weeks ago he called insisting that on talking, we met and he told me he wants us to start the process of baby making. But i dont trust him anymore. what should i do?xyo Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): A baby isn't a thing... it is a real live human being with a life in front of them... don't bring a child into your sexual drama with a married man. It is disrespectful to the child's life. A child deserves more than that and you should not bring another human being into a world of misery and confusion.
Drop this guy like a bad habit, keep your legs crossed and/or use birth control and find someone who can be a husband and a father....
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 You have good reason not to trust him. He is MARRIED and is completely out of order in even thinking about "making a baby" - or having sex, with ANYONE other than his wife.
He lied to you when a woman who says she is his wife (and she probably is) contacted you.
For your own well-being, your peace of mind, FORGET all about "loving" him and go on with your life. Hopefully you'll eventually meet a nice, single (or widowed or divorced) man who will treat you with respect, consideration, and genuine caring. Someone who won't lie to you or pretend to be other than what he is......
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): Get real. Do you need to ask that? Don't make a baby with anyone who has lied and deseived you! And what about his wife? Omg. Don't do that. Girl its time to move on NOT time to make a baby!
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