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writes:i have lost all hope, joy , happiness...what can i do?i have failed to get a job, or get into another relationship..more so i have no one i can tell about my challenges...so am all alone, scared..infact terrified...so what can a simple gal like me,,,who has a heart of gold...wants to make it in life...DO? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Hi
Find your dream...remember it...make it happen and live it!!!!!
Good Luck
spunky monkey :)
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reader, kenny  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 I know it does not seem like it now as it seems like things keep going wrong and failing you, but things can, and will get better, but you have got to want to more than anything. You have a heart of gold, which is a fantastic start. I think alot of people take action outside of themselves, but i believe that the best things are created from within. Find that inner harmony, and piece that comes from within by doing maybe 15 minutes of meditation and concentrating on your breathing, and visualising yourself already having achieved your desired outcome's.
Create a vision board, and pin to it the pictures of the things that you most want in life, and look at it at various points in the day, mainly in the morning, and before bed, and feel how you would feel if these things were already in your life. Another more advanced method of this is to create a mind movie by downloading windows movie maker. I did this by downloading beautiful pictures coupled with positive affirmations, then followed by your favouite song, its a really inspiring experience.
Then get out there and mix it up, start some classes with something that you really enjoy doing, when you will be meeting people who are into the same stuff you are. Do one thing everyday that just makes your heart sing, get into nature, go for a walk by the sea, by a river, and appreciate the things you already have.
I hope it goes well for you.
x
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch +, writes (21 December 2010):
 you say that you are a simple gal so i will make this simple jesus christ he is the friend that sticks closer than a brother and can heal your heart send the right man job and friends and he is the greatest listener he will even plead your case to god almighty this is the best and truest advice you will get please don't blow it off i have been where you've been and want to help so reply to me and let me help you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 December 2010):
I know what you mean. 2 years ago I lost my job, was unemployed. Then I set up my own company. It lasted a year, but I just couldn't get the work and had to close it. Now I've been unemployed for another 4 months an it's driving me slowly mad.
So, I've decide to go in a completely different direction. I have two interviews in January, and whilst it's going to be hard, I figure I have nothing to lose anymore.
That's kind of what you need to do. You're in a bad place right now, but if you swing it around, this could be the moment you've been waiting for. Now you can choose a whole new direction. Whatever you want to do, send an application and hope for the best. You want to act, then act. You want to retrain as a nurse, try it. You want to volunteer in Africa, go for it.
When I was made employed, I thought it was the worst thing. But, if I'm lucky and I work hard now, it could be the best thing that has ever happened. Look at this as the biggest break you've ever had, and do whatever you want to.
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reader, steph007  +, writes (21 December 2010):
A female at your age should not loose her hopes and persistence. A female at your age may find good partners at each street-corner.
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