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writes:I had been talking to this guy all week and he met me and my friends out on Saturday night. We talked the entire night and well into the morning. We fooled around a little bit, but there was no sex (oral or otherwise). We fell asleep and then when we woke up we talked for almost an hour longer and then we both had other social obligations to attend to, so he left and he gave me a really nice hug. I don't know if maybe I said something that made him think I wasn't interested, but he hasn't contacted me at all. I know it's just two days later, but I really thought that he was interested! I'm so confused and I don't know what to do. Maybe I was too sarcastic? Maybe he thought I was serious when I joked about him being alright? Should I have kissed him goodbye? I'm really just at a loss because I really like him and I don't want to screw this up. Reply to this Question
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reader, spiderghost +, writes (22 December 2010):
spiderghost is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did contact him, but he hasn't responded after an initial conversation. This was on Sunday, so...I don't know!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 So... have you contacted him??
Because if you haven't, then could he not be thinking the exact same things that you are but vice versa? Unless he got your number but you didn't get his, then there's no reason why you can't just call him right...?
It's only 2 days though, so just try to relax and stop over thinking this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): You gave him too much too soon. Guys lose respect for girls that give up too much too soon (kissing, sex, oral, fooling around).
Read these books "Why men marry bitches" and "He's just not that into you".
Saved me from a lot of grief over the years!
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reader, donnita  +, writes (21 December 2010):
hey,
maybe he too might be feeling just like you are rite now. Theres nothing wrong with you reaching out to him. Just remember to keep your text or call quite brief. At times guys really need a sign...sometimes a very big one saying that you r interested....so contact him. See how he reacts...if he sounds happy that you called, then he's definately interested.
Personally i dont think you did anything wrong :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 December 2010):
 I don't think you did anything wrong, and there is nothing wrong with you reaching out either. Just a quick text or call to say hi.
Keep in mind that this is a very busy time of year for most people. Sometimes things we want to do get pushed to the wayside and will remain there till after the new year.
I doubt he's scared off or thinks you're not interested. If that's your concern though, then send him something that lets him know you're interested.
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