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writes:what should i get my guy for Christmas when he says he dont want anything from me? hes the type of guy that like to be the provider in the relationship! but hes reining my Christmas spirit because im so use to giving gifts on christmas! should i get him anything even though he'll be mad or sit back and let my Christmas spirit fade away.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Simple idea then. Rather than buying something for him, DO something for him. Maybe make some pictures of yourself for him, or make a pile of christmas cookies for him, or arrange for an uncommonly perfect evening with him.
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reader, CaptainObvious +, writes (21 December 2010):
 That's typically what we say if we suspect your budget might be strained, or that we'll end up with a lame gift anyway.
The only way he might be offended would be if your budget is significantly higher than his, and he feels trapped between embarrassment and being forced into spending more than he can afford.
Tell him you received an unexpected christmas bonus of X amount, so you are going to spend it on him, and see if you get a more specific answer.
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