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writes:I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me and i can not take it any more because he always on his phone not working at this time having nasty pics of other girls on his contact list and he really don't wanna have sex with me anymore saying " if i really want to have sex with u the way i wanna have sex with u i will get board and be with someone else" that hurts me because i really care about him but i do not want to be with me he say he does but i do not know what to do. Iam ready to move on and be with someone but it is hard because we have kids and it is hard.
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reader, CJH  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 There are always two sides to every story but going by what you're saying here, the man sounds like a complete waste of space.
Staying together for the sake of the children is about the wort thing you could do. No matter how young they are, they will pick up on the moods and misery in your house. When you consider that they are learning about life from you, what they experience as a result of you and your partner arguing and disrespecting each other will stay with them for life.
Stop kidding yourself that enduring this misery is best for them - it isn't full stop.
Walking away takes a lot of courage and I wouldn't suggest doing it if your issues could be resolved but it doesn't look like they can to me.
You'll be doing the entire family a huge favour if you do this and, most importantly, you'll be ensuring you kids live in peace and harmony rather than slap bang in the middle if a war zone.
Hopefully, the fact that your bf is a useless partner won't a,so mean he is a useless father but regardless of that, do the right thing now and give him the chance to see the children as much as possible.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (21 December 2010):
 I've always thought its hard enough bringing kids up, but if y ou are miserable bringing them up then it's hard on them. You need to get your life on track, get rid of the dead wood, that will make you happier and you will find a lot of happiness with your kids because you won't be upset worrying about their cheating father any more.
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