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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Because on some level this woman addresses certain emotional needs of yours that make you respond to her.
Which emotional needs those are, and if they are healthy or emotional dysfunctional depends on you and your situation.
I talk a lot about the emotional needs of men, and you can view a number of media appearances for free of me discussing them at http://www.franktalks.com/emotionalneeds
Hope that helps.
-Frank
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): You want her but she intimidates you so you try to convince yourself that you don't like her to shield your ego. You're obsessed with her because your attraction to her is overpowering your ability to shield your ego. It's a vicious internal cycle of insanity. Stop putting yourself through insanity and get some confidence. That's how you can feel hold onto her.
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reader, Jessypj  +, writes (21 December 2010):
Because you do want her.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Do you have too much time on your hands? Or are you possibly in love and trying to deny it to yourself? Are you constantly forced to see her?
There could be a million reasons, but obviously if you actually weren't interested in her then you wouldn't be what you call obsessed with her either. So definitely you are fascinated by her one way or the other. Imagine the two of you were alone in a room, what do you think/wish would happen? If anything romantic comes into your mind then I hereby declare you in love. Sometimes we subconsciously are drawn to people without realizing why. I suggest you get to know her and figure out what exactly it is that draws you to her.
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