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I'm really uncertain what my girlfriend is up to!

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Question - (21 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The other day my girlfriend and I were fooling around. I've never had problems making her orgasm with my hand before and she is usually really sensitive. She seemed to definitely be feeling good but I couldn't quite get her to orgasm. She ended up climbing on top of me and working my fingers herself until she came.. She has never done that before.. And when she was done she was done. She didn't want to do anything for me.

I have several bad feelings left over from this... from being insufficient to being used... what do you think?

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Lately my girlfriend has been staying after school to play kickball in the parking lot of our high school instead of having me take her home. One of the guys that is there has kissed her and tried to break us up multiple times. Should I be worried.. Is it wrong that I am? I need some reassurance..

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My girlfriend is a Cheerleader. Lately she's started going to the open gyms for the team she wants to cheer for in college. As part of the "dress code" the girls wear spandex shorts and a rolled up shirt or just their sports bra. I know at the college level the guys are usually cheering because they are serious about it or they need the scholarship but I can't help but have an issue with it. Am I just being an idiot. Idk what to do. Please help..

[Mod note: Three questions from the same poster compiled into one. To help the aunts understand the scope of the situation.]

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A female reader, Initwithhim Hong Kong +, writes (22 December 2010):

it sounds like your being a wee bit jelous, hun. I think that just cos your lady wanted to try something new doesn't mean she is different. you should trust her. because you hsould know that she trusts you too.

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