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writes:So I'm in college, and this year, within the first two months, my friend told this guy that i like him. The thing is, when she told him that, I actually didn't like him. However, now I'm growing more attracted to him daily. He thinks/knows i like him, and there are rumors circulating. Anyways, my question is: How can i confuse him to make him think that I either don't like him, or give him mixed signals to make him that much more doubtful about whether I do or not? I don't want comments about how dishonest and manipulative this is. He's straight (or at least not out of the closet) so I want him to forget I ever liked him, and doubt whether I like him now. Simply saying "I don't like you." didn't work out before, so i need to plant the doubt and distraction into his head without him noticing that was my plan all along. I'm not trying to get in his pants, I just want us to be chill friends, even if that means I have to put aside my little crush. But we can't be friends until he doubts that little crush was ever even there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Okay... here are a few tips on things that have been mixed signals for me:Start a conversation with him, then don't say much and finally cut it short.Be ambiguous with a lot of other guys.Make flirty moves in a "joke" kind of way, as if being serious with him could never happen.Try ignoring him just as much as you acknowledge him.Living these has made me miserable, but only because I liked the guy. Hope my painful memories can be of some use to someone instead :)
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