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41-50,
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writes:I have mixed feelings for the guy I am dating. He lives out of town and we saw each other 4 months ago. Things were so/so but we continued to stay in touch as we seem to have some chemistry, albeit sexual. He's coming out over the holidays but I am still having mixed feelings. One day, great we will have fun I will go with the flow; the next I pick apart all his flaws (as if I don't have any). Is this normal? It's been sometime since I have been in relationship.Also, I felt really awkward at times when we were kissing -- like it's was the first time.
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reader, Hyz'fantasieGyrl  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 well this is regular for most girls that havent been in a relationship for a long time. I think that you should take it slow and let time be the judge you it. And in the end if you feel like he isnt the right guy for you let him go!!
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reader, CaptainObvious +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Ok - so you aren't in love with him, but you have a sexual relationship.
Unless the guy is an idiot, he can see your ambivalence, yet he is still willing to be with you.
You pick him apart, but still have sex with him.
Are you conflicted over having essentially a friend with benefits?
If you don't roll that way - stop.
If you're ok with that sort of relationship, perhaps you should explain which of his heads holds your interest.
He'll either be of a like mind, and you can stop with socializing that annoys you both, or he'll move one.
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