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Why was he so quiet during oral sex?

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Question - (21 December 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I hadn't seen my boyfriend of 11 months, in 6 days. When we met up, I thought I'd surprise him with a blow job, our first, and because I was on my heaviest day of period. I did not feel comfy with regular sex. It was amazing for me, and I hope for him as well- he came, but quietly ( he is a lot more vocal with regular sex) afterwards we lay in bed he was lazy but happy, and then asked if I would do it again, I said sure. This was about 20 minutes after first go round. He ejaculated again! Also quietly..He never goes more than once regular sex (at times acrobatic) I was in awe then I worried he took some kind of pill, which he denied doing...anyway I swallowed both times, and it was a lot. Not an awkward taste, but I am also not a picky eater. My questions are 1. Why was he quiet, was it not good enough? 2. He came a lot, I don't really notice with reg sex cuz we use condoms, is ejaculation different orally? 3. He felt bad that I didn't get any action, so he went to my kitchen and baked me a cake!! That's not a question but it was a sweet gesture I can only share with you, aunts and uncles :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010):

i think its great fun giving my bf blowjobs lol , and hes normally quiet except for sayen when hes about to come or askin if im ok lol he still does that and omg how sweet is your guy!!! he baked a cake :) awwwww :)

oh and mine came twice during one bj.. like he stayed hard.. that confused me.. if you want to answer please do, i dont have an account ..

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (21 December 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntSounds like he had a LOT of fun. (I mean, cumming twice in a short span of time is impressive. PLUS you swallowed!) It reads like an 'ideal sexual situation'. Be proud ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010):

I think you're overanalyzing things and he was just too enraptured to say anything!! he came twice in 20 minutes - wow!! what a treat, for both of you! my boyfriend is also quiet when he cums during a blowjob. I think it's different cuz when they are just lying back receiving pleasure without having to do any 'work' themselves they are so completely lost in the pleasure that it's like they literally can't do anything else except cum!...personally I think its very sexy, when he is completely silent yet he's cumming huge loads or his orgasm seems to go on and on.

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A male reader, rivi United States +, writes (21 December 2010):

Sound like you both had a nice time . Sounds like you both had a nice time . [ So nice he came twice !! ].

Don't overanalyse it just enjoy......

One variation you could try would be oral with him on top astride your breasts........ then just b4 he orgasms he pulls out your mouth and ejaculates over your nipples \ breasts.....then he can use his mouth to kiss / stimulate your nipples and also transfer some of the semen to your lips and tongue...... [ at that point he'll get hard again and be able to take his penis home again to your vagina.....]

Bliss all round....... Happy Blissmas !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010):

Yeah this guy was in orbit and away from reality lol. He was in a zone for sure. He did enjoy it miss.

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A male reader, lionelhutz United States +, writes (21 December 2010):

Just because he was quiet does not mean he did not enjoy it. If he didn't, I'm pretty sure he would not have asked you to do it a second time. Some guys might just react differently for different sex acts. I can be a little vocal during intercourse but usually am quiet when I receive oral. Only way you'll know for sure is to watch his behavior the next time you perform oral on him.

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A male reader, alex74 United States +, writes (21 December 2010):

alex74 agony auntYou gave him a blowjob to the point of ejaculation. He asked for a repeat performance and he came AGAIN. Then he went and baked you a cake? You should be giving pointers to others. I too am very quiet when I'm in extasy. I can't always cum during oral sex.....this does not make a blowjob any less Awesome. They are intensely intimate and very much appreciated. Keep up the good work.... you are very skilled!!

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A male reader, rolfen Lebanon +, writes (21 December 2010):

rolfen agony aunt"Regular sex" is something else. I can also be vocal, but not when receiving oral sex. That is because "regular sex" is more involving. He probably came a lot because it has been a while. Oral sex for me, if well done (slow and all that) is a totally different pleasure then sex. It is mental then sexual, and more about receiving respect and admiration then pleasure. (or so it should be in a perfect world).

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (21 December 2010):

Danielepew agony auntHe loved it?

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (21 December 2010):

The Realist agony auntThat is a sweet thing to do. I tend to be fairly quite because it is hard to make noise when the other person is unable to respond. Do you notice is body tense up and his hands in fists because that is a good sign. Some poeple just don't make alot of noise depending on the act.

As for the pill it could have been some medication or anything. I doubt it is bad, maybe it's just a little too personal but I don't think that it would affect the amount of noise he makes.

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