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writes:About a week ago, I finally "manned up" and told the girl I love how I feel about her (by writing a note to her). This is the first time I have ever had to do this because I have never felt that way about a girl before, and as I am pretty shy it was really terrifying!I turns out that she only saw me as a friend, but I love her and care for her so much and I was sure she was my soul-mate, so now I am completely heartbroken!I know I'm supposed to "take it like a man" but I'm so sad and can't stop crying over her. I'm also really lonely because I don't really have any friends besides her friends, and it's to awkward for me to hang around with them now, and I don't have any ways to make any new friends.I'm completely devastated about this, and the constant sadness is invading my life to the extent that I can't concentrate on or enjoy anything anymore. What can I do to lift myself out of this depression?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): She's not the special girl that's out there searching for you. Patience. She's going to surface when you least expect it so stop putting anything into this one because ya gonna need it for your #1 girl, and I assure you, you will be elated that this one turned you down.
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reader, ljhenhmla  +, writes (14 December 2010):
Don't get down it all part of life not everyone is going to feel the same way towards u as u may feel for them. Take it as a learing experience and try not be down. Goodluck
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