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writes: I'm 17 and my boyfriend who is 18 is amazing! I love spending time with him and always have a laugh when I'm with him. We've been together for just over 2 years. I suppose you could say we had a sexual relationship from the beginning. I had done stuff with my ex's but hadn't had sex with any of them, and it was the same with my boyfriend. Everything was great. I did have sex with my boyfriend 6 months into the relationship when we both decided we was ready. We talk openly about what we had done before we got together and what we liked and everything, which didn't make me feel uncomfortable because I want to know where he found out he likes certain stuff if that makes sense?He always used to tease me abit but wouldn't leave me hanging or whatever but it was about 6 months ago things seemed to change. We'd be fooling around and he knows that I like it when he teases me but he'd do it and then stop and say he has stuff to do. Fair enough if he left it until night but thats what he is constantly doing, like getting me all worked up and then not doing anything. It's really frustrating and I don't know if it's something I've done. I don't expect him to always please me and I happily do it for him but he just doesn't seem to want to. Can anyone suggest what the problem could be x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): Yeah, that's totally unfair! Don't just sit back and let him wallow in it- it could just be harmless fun building up to something special, but you have to let him know that it's bothering you- otherwise he'll just carry on! He's he's half decent he should immediately understand :)
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (13 December 2010):
Start doing it to him....see how he likes it!!! Failing that, just talk to him about it, tell him it's frustrating getting all worked up then nothing else happens.
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