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writes:This is the third time i've asked a question here, that just shows that my life is full of drama. The only reason i dont tell my family and friends about my problems is because they can be very judgemental so i guess i need an outsiders opinion/help. So anyway i met this guy couple of days ago and we started seeing eachother, he invited me to his house today and we hung out and it was going great but as soon as my phone vibrated he grabbed it and answered my phone!! I was so shocked i was literally speachless mostly because he was telling my guy mate to fuck off and suck on his mums tittys?! I mean what is wrong with this guy? Is he being too protective? Should i dump him before he ruins everything for me? I seriously need help :-/ x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): He sounds insecure, aggressive and quite frankly, ignorant. Hes not being protective. Trust me, theres a good chance you will need protecting from him eventually. Being offensive to your friends and driving them away, isnt protecting you. Its a warning sign of things to come. He will sabotage any friendships you have that he doesnt approve of. Which will probably be most of your guy friends and any gal pals he thinks might 'lead' you astray. He will probably make remarks to pull your self confidence down to his level and leave you feeling as insecure as he is. Snatching your phone from you. Answering your call without your permission and being so offensive to your friend. This behaviour speaks volumes about the type of person he is. I would not date him if i were you.
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reader, soon567  +, writes (13 December 2010):
thats his way of controlling you, Lt him be some other girl problem.
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reader, Shyclau +, writes (13 December 2010):
RUN!!! Girl
If this has just Been a couple of days let me tell
You that it will only get worse.
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reader, 21w +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Hmmm it is weird.
Even if you would know him couple of years it is not normal to do that...that is not protective, it sounds more like crazy. He doesn't have the right to do that ....never.
Sounds like the guy have got issues with control, self esteem and manners.
I would pull back a bit and explain that it was wrong. And then see if everything will be okay after that-great! If not...just stay away from him.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 My opinion...
Run far.
Run fast.
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