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*ostboy1121
writes: Hey OK. My gf broke up with me and I've had some contact with her. Now we're not gonna talk for a while. I went and met her at her house yesterday and we talked for about three hours. She made a promise to me after we broke up that she knew I was the one to make her happy and that i'd be the first one she'd come to when she was ready. She said she just wasn't ready for a relationship. I know I played a part in our breakup. When we talked yesterday though, she changed the promise, and said that she'd talk to me when she was ready, but even if it wasn't with me. She'd tell me. She also said that I Samsung amazing and a great person, and that our relationship wasn't that bad. She told me a while ago she wanted to take it slow. She told me yesterday I moved too fast for her. She said it's been hard on her and she liked me a lot, and she thinks about texting or calling me and wants to but has to remember the new boundaries. I can tell she does not want to entertain the idea of me and her getting back together right now. I feel like she's covering something up to protect my feelings. She knows I know what part I played and have rain steps to correct those things. I am looking for a woman's point of view on what she is doing right now. I would like some kind of insight on her actions. If you need to know more I can tell you. I would also like to know more of what I would do from now on to maximize her chances of coming back to me, seeing as how I like her a lot. Thanks for any help.
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