A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: hi im a swinger and a round a year ago i met another swinger we both became more attached than usual and started having a serious relationship, he didnt know i was a swinger i never told him. anyways recently i told him and since then his attitude towards me changed.i expected him to be hurt or something but he wasnt he just started treating me like a swinger like phoning me whenever he wasnt busy or anything like that.. and ive been a bit hurt i mean we both showed each other our other side and he'd even been talking about serious future, we had never had any proplems with the sleeping with other people issue and stuff like that but hes not taking me seriously anymore. should i break up with him cause hes had a whole year to see my true side the side id shown only him has it all been a waste and im wasting my time now thinking he might take me seriously again? tnx Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, TimmD +, writes (13 December 2010):
Have you tried having an honest and open conversation about it? Tell him that you feel his feelings towards you have changed and you want him to be more than just another swinger relationship.
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