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We broke up, he hasn't text or called, and his friends are saying he is talking to someone else.....what should I do?

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Question - (13 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *fcknmissyou writes:

HI THERE. well i just recently broke up with my ex on wednesday. he texted me thursday morninq and we didnt talk friday at all .ever since we broke up he hasnt really texted or called me :/ .his friends said he is talking to someone already.but what i wanna know is how so soon did he move on .i feel like texting him but i dont want him to think he can get back with me when ever he wants or feels like it. another thing i love him so much and i dont know if he feels the same way anymore because he moved on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 December 2010):

Teenage boys (and girls - but more boys) are notorious from moving from one girl to another in a short space of time. And that's what's happened here. I'm not sure who broke up with you. But if you broke up with him, it's not his job to come running. And if he broke up with you, then that's a sure sign he's over the relationship.

Whoever broke up with who doesn't matter. What matters is that it's over, and he's clearly decided to move on. You would do better to search for a guy who you won't break up with, rather than live in the past. Even if he did come back, chances are it wouldn't work out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010):

Who broke up with who? Did he dump you or you dump him?

Why should he text you at all if you've broken up?

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (13 December 2010):

Mjfbla agony auntYou dont know that he has moved on. His friends could just being saying that. Text him if you think there is a chance you could be with him. If not the dont bother. If he really loved you, he still will. Just be friendly. Tell him you are kinda hurt because you heard he had already moved on to some other girl and you dont understand how he could do that if he had loved you.

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