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writes:I recently met a girl 2 months ago, we clicked very first and after one month, I discovered she was lying to me of her relationship with her ex who she said that they had broken up. I realised this after she returned my phone back after she got her's back.I got to know the truth after I called the guy and inquired who he was to her since when I was going thro the call log I noticed the girl called him after or before talking to me at night.When I confronted her, she was sad and I opted to end the relationship. After some days she call and requested to see me. I met her I saw she was sad and I decided to give her another chance. Ever since she has been confused and she requested to have chance to think about everything.I gave her time but she was like on off in what she wanted. I hate liers since when it come to loving I gave her my all and hated the feeling of being the fool.I ended everything since she was n't sure of anything and I thot I deserved more than what I was getting. When I said this and took my belongings she held on before and after the tensed situation, she looked sad eventhough we agreed this was the best option left. Was I wrong in making this move?
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (13 December 2010):
In situations like this you have to think of yourself and you were right to end things
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): I think you made the right decision. Although this girl may be sad that you ended it, and she may be confused about what she wants, you do not deserve to suffer in the meantime. Your needs are important too. It sounds like you want an equal and honest relationship, and that is what you deserve. I don't think you will get that openness with this girl, not with her ex in the picture. If she liked you that much, she would cut off contact with her ex. She hasn't, which means part of her heart is still with him. And without trust and honesty, any relationship will struggle. I know it must be difficult for you, and it must have been a tough decision to make. But my personal opinion is that you did the right thing.
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