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writes:Although 21 years of age is still relatively young, I can't help, but feel doomed. I am god-awful at relationships. I have tried multiple gay dating sites, but the results were far from what I expected. I have tried getting out there and "meeting people."I, even, tried lowering my standards, I think I have been told they're too high. However, I think it ultimately traces to my insecurity. I don't feel like I am not good enough. Please understand, I am not trying to fish out compliments. However, the fact that I have yet to be with anyone is a proof that I am doing something wrong. And I am just trying to figure what that is.Any help would be appreciated...Thanks all. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010):
I'm 22 and have the same damn problem. Your not on your own. All I do at the moment is read wilde and isherwood and every other gay writer on the planet - it has helped but not any longer. I'm resolved to go to a bar in the next few months and if have to go alone or bribe one of my straight friends into going with me than that's just the way it is. Good luck.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (13 December 2010):
You have to believe yourself, because if you don't no-one will. Positive mental attitude. If you can't start doing this then you will find it difficult.
What makes you insecure about yourself? What good features do you think you have both physically and personality? Use them as your strengths.
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