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writes:so basically ive broken up with my boyfriend and i am getting to the point where im over him. the otehr day i went on his fb just to see what he was up to and how he was and on his wall practically every person he talks to he is slagging me off and blaming things on me, that werent even me, he's even deleted all the pictures of me, even if i was with random people other than him and i would kinda like those photos back theres some nice ones of me modelling too (hes does photography). im just wondering why he would do any of this? i understand about the photos of me and him he obviously does not want ot be reminded of me.. but the rest i simply dont get?
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reader, willowheartstring +, writes (13 December 2010):
willowheartstring is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTine: he ended it with me which is the odd thing.
thank you everyone the answers are really helpful x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 December 2010):
Sometimes in life, you wind up meeting idiots. Your ex is one of them. Thank God you broke up with him. I wouldn't worry about what he's up to. He's just an immature little boy who isn't worth your time. Cut all ties, and just ignore him for the rest of your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): This must be unpleasant for you. He could just be being immature, and trying to get attention from people. Or his pride may be wounded. He might be trying to act like he isn't bothered about the break-up, and is trying to make people think it was all because of you. It is quite a childish thing to do, but it is also cruel of him.
What I will say is, no matter what he is saying about you, people tend to know the truth. Don't assume that everyone believes what he is saying. Even if on the surface people agree with him, it doesn't necessarily mean that they believe him. People can often tell when someone is just being mean and telling lies. So try not to feel like he will turn everyone against you, if you can. I know it must be horrible though.
I suggest that you cut all ties with him, and block him on Facebook. If you keep seeing that kind of thing on his wall it will just upset you, and it isn't pleasant. Try and forget about him. Let him tell immature lies, leave him to it. The fact that he would say things like that shows what kind of person he is. You deserve better. Rise above it and move on. Anyone who is worth your time will know the truth. Don't let him get you down. That's probably just what he wants. You are better than that. Good luck.
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reader, Tine +, writes (13 December 2010):
 he is probably slagging you off to make himself feel a bit better about the break-up.. did you end it with him or was it him that did the breaking up??
if this is the case of him slagging you off at every opportunity then i suggest you just be the bigger person and delete him off your facebook.. That way if he has anything bad to say about you, you'll not be able to see it.. he sounds a bit immature to be honest and i would just say to him, if thats how you are dealing with it then fine, be immature and act childish.. you however just throw your head up high and say I'M OVER IT!!! don't get yourself annoyed about it...
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