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writes:hey everyone :)im in a real pickle here... k here goes;im in college, and there is this girl that i just ADORE! i have been after her for the past 2 years now. she didnt even look me straight in the face aT FIRST, but then i got closer and things developed a little bit. we became close friends... just friends. but deep down i still liked her. but she once told me that she wont date anyone. so in the end i confessed to her and told her how i felt. she didnt reply, so i told her that because i like her and i care about her i dont want to be her friend anymore... she agreed. later i asked one of her friends about how she rly felt... she said that she NEVER EVER had any feelings other than friendship for me, and that she wishes for us 2 be friends again. but i cant get over her!i dunno wht to do now.. im crazy about here and i rly want this to work! any ideas i would rly appreciate itthnx in advance :D Reply to this Question
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reader, megaman +, writes (7 June 2012):
megaman is verified as being by the original poster of the question haha thnx guys! this os probably 2 years late but i kinda forgot this site existed untill now!
i actually talked to her and we cleared things out cause i didnt want to lose her
we r friends now and dats all i want now to be honest, im glad i didnt lose her
thank you so much for ur advice ^___^ (i read it a couple of years ago but i just remembered to reply xD)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Hi, what I would say is never listen to what her friends say she said, because she may not tell them everything. I don't tell my girl friends my feelings about the guys I like for many reasons. Perhaps in time if she does feel the same she will make her feelings clear, but keeping her as a friend is the only way that this can be a possibility, if your not in her life then your bond won't be as strong. Also consider talking things out with her, approach her in a friendly manner and ask for a honest chat, this way you can clear up any misunderstandings, and you will know where you stand with her, then you can move on from this dilemma.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Hey mate, the thing is no one realy knows how we feel about anything or anyone beter than ourselves. So her telling her mate she only wished 2 be friends with you may or may not be true. Either way you obviusly mean a lot to her considering she wants to be friends again. And thats a start. Do it! Be mates with her! Dont sit back and watch this opoturnity pass by! Cause while maybe she doesnt feel the same way about you as you do for her, at the very least you will still have her in your life and thats a step in the right direction for you. Because no matter how hard you try I can almost guarantee you that if you dont become close friends again that she will not come running to you confesing her undying love anytime soon. But if you become friends again, dont force the subject of how you feel about her, if she does like you she will tell you- and if she doesnt then at the very least you will still have her as a realy close friend (: Just imagine your in your 70's and your sitting on a deck somewhere wondering about how life would have turned out if you had of still been friends. Nows your chance dude, take it or leave it- the choice is yours :]
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