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writes:Is our relationship just a physical one, or do we just find each other really atractive? We have been dateing for 9 months now and around month 2 we did everything but sex, and started having sex at 6 months. Were both in high school and when we hang out most of the time its at one of our houses. We hang out like 2-3 times a week. We do sexual stuff about 75% of the time. Most of the times we don't do stuff its cause of her period. We get along with each other great and tell each other everything. We are very much in love. But do we love each other cause of the sexual stuff and enjoy the relationship so much cause of the sex? Or is it something real and its normal to do stuff that often as teenagers?
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reader, :)31215  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 When she's healed from her op, it'll be great for both of you :)
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reader, fballfan +, writes (13 December 2010):
fballfan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the imput guys :) and as for cindys sugestion of slowing things down and seeing what happens. That's happening now, she just had some minor surgery on her leg so we can't do anything. We still get along great when we hang out, I just really want sex to, like we both do but we cant. Its been 3 weeks since we have. I just really want to.
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reader, :)31215 +, writes (13 December 2010):
A the sex you have will slowdown once your both comfortable wth the relationship and each other.
Me and my boyfriend were like tht.. See each other about 3 times a week and have sex each time. So much so, I was waiting for it by the time his door was shut. But one say it didn't come so I asked him about it and he used to say "mys parent are in". Which is wierd cause it never bothered him before. Turns out he just didn't think we needed to have sex evrytime we see each other.
Now when we do have sex it's way more intimate and loving. We've been together jst over 2 and a half years.. So I can say that my relationship is love.
Just wait and let it play out. You say you both hang out and talk and stuff which is great. Good luck, I hope this works out for you :)
and like rivi said... Don't forget protection. If she wants it done, I suggest the implant. Higher rate of protection and you don't need to remember to take a pill everyday
hope this helped
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 You can make an experiment. Slow down with sex , or skip it altogether, for a while . If you still love to hang out together and always find things to talk about and do together etc., then there is a real connection. If you don't ,then it's mostly your hormones acting up :)
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 December 2010):
Well clearly the sexual activity is something you both are enjoying with one another ..... plus you do more than just sex: you talk etc.. So sounds as if u r good for one another. Does it matter whether what you are enjoying by way of one-another's company can be defined as 'love' ? Don't try and define it or over intellectualize it : just enjoy it ( and make sure you always use condoms / she's on the Pill - you don't want pregnancy ruining everything ).
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