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I'm not his girlfriend anymore, and he can't talk to me this way!

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Question - (13 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi

My bf dumped me a month back saying like he is getting emotionally attached to me. I didnt call him after that, yesterday i called him to return his stuff back. He said he missed me and wanted me back. I said i like to be his friend but cant be his gf anymore since he hurt me too much when he broke up and i cant trust him anymore. He said he also like to be my friend

Today he called me and was doing sex talk. I told him i am not his gf anymore and he cant talk to me in this way. He suggested for, friends with benefits and i told him a big NO. He got so angry and never answered my calls after that.

I asked around my friends and they told me he never hooked up any girl after our break up.

Is he still have feelings for me or he is trying to use me again? Actually i wanted him back too, but i am scared that he is gonna hurt me all over again and moreover he has commitment issues. Our relationship is on and off for the past 1 year.

I am totally confused, please someone help me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010):

Just have a talk with him. Talking always makes it better :D

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