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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I dated for our senior year in highschool, we always had a rocky relationship but we were completely in love then about 2 months into college she broke up with me the day before my birthday and i was devastated, she started seeing this guy who was much older then her and I completely stopped talking to her even tho she would always try to contact me after. Then we ended up getting back together over winter break just to break up again a month after returning to school. We stopped talking for the most part again. During the summer we saw each other often because were friends with the same people but she was hooking up with this guy and did not seem interested in me until one day she told me she was still in love with me and could not pretend like she wasnt so we started hanging out again and then she asked me to be her boyfriend again and we started dating again. We broke up about a month later and she started dating the guy she was with before we were together again. We stopped talking again and the summer ended and i went back to school. We didnt talk for most of the semester until i contacted her and told her i missed her and loved her and she said she didnt know what to say to me. now its winter break again and she was begging me to see her and told me she loves me and misses me so i went out to a club with her and her friend and my even though she has a boyfriend firned (he cheated on her and she claims that their relationship is not going well). We spent the whole night dancing together and holding hands and we kissed and she said she had an amazing time with me. Now all shes doing is telling me how she misses me and she tells me she loves me. Shes still with her boyfriend though who is away at school. She tells me she wants to have sex with me and sent me naked pictures and seems to be really into me. But when i am afraid she is just leading me on because when i talk to her about us she said "she dosent know what i want her to do break up with ehr boyfriend and go out with me again?" She says its impossible to start something when im going back to school yet shes going to school even further from her current boyfriend and we already have something together. She asks me why i cant just have fun with her. And i told her because im in love with her and it hurts me tht she is with someone else. I just dont get her. Why does she tell me she loves me and misses me so much is she is with someone else under the same situation we would be in if we were togather? it makes no sense. I dont know if shes trying to leave the door open for me to win her back or if she is just leading me on for the fun of it. She knows i am madly in love with her and have never slept with another girl since we started dating. I just cant help but think she is jsut stringing me along. I just do not know what to do im a wreck without her in my life ive tried the no contact thing and it dosent work i dont talk to her for months yet im still deeply inlove with her what should i do?
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reader, steph007  +, writes (13 December 2010):
Young ppl may be really confused by their own feelings and emotions. This girl is typically this. In your place I would tell her that, okay, she is always flip-flopping in her love-life, so you do not mind if she has 2 boyfriends in the same time, but she should stop this bamboozlement. Then you will see how the story continues.
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