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writes:I'm 19 and I used to be a bad person. I was raised by a single mother that never really cared about me because i was a mistake. I was shown no love growing up so I gave non. About 2 years ago I looked into this girls eyes and sense then she is all i can think about. I have changed much sense then, and I am a better person now... I think.But feeling no love has made it to were i don't really know what it feels like. I think I'm in love with her, but I don't know. The other problem is that she is only 15 and most likely doesn't understand it either. I don't know if she cares about me but its starting to drive me mad. Could someone give me some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (15 December 2010):
 ABSOLUTELY!!! If a little was money instead of advice we was speaking of, and you was totally broke and somebody came alone and gave you One hundred dollars! You'll be a lot better then when they found you! Correct? LOL! Point well made! ijs! Thanks for sharing! And keep us updated. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, helps a little. But a little is more than non at all.
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (14 December 2010):
You’re absolutely right! NOT everybody is the same! Not everybody is seeking something in the future for doing a deed. You have to remember you do have trust issues that stems from your childhood. And it’s going to take some time before you learn to trust some people. . Some people have open sores that fester and they infect others with their pain. You don’t seem to be that. Some people never learn to trust or love and that’s not you! You’re willing to open you heart! So…do that with trusting people also. Life would be so shallow and boring if you just continued to think everybody wants something in the future from you. MOST people do! YOU will to! If, you never want ANYTHING. then that can be problem as well! Scratch my back I’ll scratch yours! BUT…Never just for ADVICE! You can come to US for that! Ijs!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont have any true friends though i grew up in the type of area where you just dont talk about that kind of stuff or your laughed at and my people, even thought they say that they are to the end are just saying that so you will help them with something in the future they would turn on you in a heart beat givin the right circumstance. but thanks though its just that not everybody is the same i guess
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (13 December 2010):
I strongly believe there’s no such thing as a “MISTAKE” we all have a purpose here. It’s too bad we can’t pick our parents. We must find something positive out of everything single thing that happens to us! Even if that thing is we survived it! She birthed you, is yours. Whether she loved you or not, she gave you life. Now…can I give you advice on love? I certainly can! Love is,Good communication,trust and it's when you want to achieve the most out of life, so that you can provide the best things for the person and people that you love the most! Love is when you get up in spite of a long night and GET right to those goals you have set, because you want to live happy and comfortable with that one person you have found that make you heart “SKIP A BEAT” every single time you lay your eyes on them! Love alone doesn’t pay any bills! Ijs! That’s what love is for me!
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (13 December 2010):
 well a simple way to describe love is strong unconditional feelings toward another person..and i meant to confide in a 15 year old for love is a little concerning as well but i understand you been through a lot.also u sound like you need someone who is there for you ..im sure if you talk to some of your friends around you..especially the females they will be more than willing to be there for you. Friends can love each other as well,for strong feelings towards a good friendship can be described as love as the person is there for you through thick and thin
i hope that helped a little :(
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