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writes:Okay before I ask my question ill give you background information and I would really like advice from male readers but I'm happy with whatever I can get. I have been dating this guy for about 7 months. He told me from the beginning that is very blunt and doesn't hesitate when it comes to relationships. He kissed me on our first date , he told me he loved me in less than a month of dating, and thus far our relationship has been a rushed one. I don't mind this because I don't want to hold back either. The thing I'm confused about is from about our second month of dating he started talking about very serious things such as marriage, living together, kids, and other things. His family even invited me to live with them a couple of months ago. Then we had a rocky patch and I even dated another guy. I could only think about the current guy though and I realized I love him a lot more than I thought I did. He waited on me during this time that we were apart and was there for me even when I didn't deserve it. Now were back together and things are better than ever. My question is, is it possible for this guy to really love me and want to be with me? He frequently talks about marriage since we got back together. Does it seem like he's serious?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): ~SIGH~
YES! He is being honest with you. Trust him. Congratulations!
God Bless.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 He's ready for committment and family. Good for him. If you are not at the same wavelength as him there's nothing wrong with that. He just has to be patient. What sounds like true love to him may sound like blind faith and possession on your part. Maybe he grew up in a family that's fast to warm up. He doesn't sound like he has other ulterior motives but time can only tell if he wants you or just the perfect idea of a marriage. You can be just as serious as him because you will consider things like compatability and are hesitant to plunge into something serious that could crash and burn later if reality doesn't match your expectations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You so much for your advice! I guess I get too caught up in worrying about it. You're right about the marriage thing too. So thank you, best wishes!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Well we are all different when it comes to relationships and some people fall a lot harder than other people and fall in love really quickly. Yes it is possible that he does love you, but just remember that this is the relationship second time round, and things should be ok if you both dont bring up the past and just live for the moment and the future.
As for him talking about marriage, am sure you are flattered and it is excitement to you that he feels like this, but it is way to soon for you both to be thinking about things like that, i dont think someone should concider marriage until they have been together for years and know that they are compatible with each other and that they are sure they can live together as a couple and be happy. There for yes accept that he loves you and be happy but dont rush in to the serious stuff just yet enjoy your youth and each others company. Goodluck.
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