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writes:What am i gunna do?? am soo hurt:(?my boyfriend and i broke up last night we we kept arguing..he takes me for granted and he doesn't appreciate me yet he says he loves me very much and he says hes really tried but he doesn't like hurting me and making me cry so we should go separate ways.he says he needs to sort himself out..find out whats wrong with and why he cant keep a relationship...then we can get back together.we were both really upset last night:( i deleted all his contacts.what should i do?? am soo hurt..i love him soo much.will we ever get back together??please help...we're both 21.thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): He said he loves you but has treated you badly. Words are cheap and if there is no follow through with actions, then it's no good. It's ended and although its very painful now, in time you will probably feel you are best off free of him. You will find find someone who says he love you and really means it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 December 2010):
I'm sorry, but I don't think you two will get back together. And even if there was a chance, it would be better to just not get back together.
He takes you for granted and he doesn't appreciate you at all. Why get back with someone who cares for you so little? Him saying he loves you doesn't make up for the fact that he treats you badly.
And his excuses for breaking up were poor. They're just words. The truth is, he wanted out. And now he's out.
You'll be better for this, because now you know that you can do better. So take time for yourself, go out with friends and focus on your own life. Don't think about this guy. He's clearly not worth this time.
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