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writes:I am very confused about my sex life. My ex boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago, now I really want to have sex. But every time I am ready to do it, I always think about him and ruin everything. What should I do now? I need some advice.
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (13 December 2010):
For some people it takes a few weeks to get over someone. For others it's a few months. I suspect your in the latter category.
But time and experience are a great healer. Don't get down too much about thinking about him for a while. It's very normal. You just need more time a few experiences with people to help you get over this feeling. This feeling happens to everybody. But when you find your true love, or even a great next love, then this will just become a distant memory.
PS You've heard of the cliche called "the rebound boyfriend"? as this might be what you need. Just make sure you're honest with the guy that you might be in this period of life. You won't believe how many guys don't mind being this. Mostly because they are not ready for full commitment yet. It might be a clche but it also might be what you need right now. Good luck.
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