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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'll make this short. I was dating my GF for 7 months in Oct we moved in together and it was up and down. Basically my past relationships have always ended with me getting hurt so i have trust issues and Im not jealous but i get this itch to see if something is up. The start of our relationship she lied to me about going out with a guy but just to tell him she was seeing me. I read it in an email her friend sent when i was on her computer. Anyways She has never given me reason to not trust but sometimes when I was lonely (Currently unemployed) or basically just unhappy with myself I would try to find something and she would call me out on it. I promised her I would change but its been hard. Most recently she has been seeming distant and I looked at her phone and she has been chatting a lot with an older married guy at work about our relationship and they talked on the phone for half an hour one time. I called her out and said why cant you talk to me about this stuff. Basically she said she couldnt do it anymore. and wanted me to move out she would pay my half. I feel hurt and now Im concentrating on me actively pursuing a new career with a few hopefuls very soon. basically i need to make ME happy before I can make her happy. I love her and care for her But i cant tell if she still loves me. I have broke off communication with her but would their ever be a chance of getting back together?
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reader, LoveexD +, writes (13 December 2010):
You have a reason to be curious,
But maybe you are too nosy. She is your gf. Butmaybe she is talkingt to a married man because he might give her good advice. You two should trust each other to talk about that stuff. If she loves you, she wont hurt you unless you hurt her. (:
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reader, angry mad black girl +, writes (13 December 2010):
 trust mi, am in the same position. my bf is the same thing like you, and am just as ur gf, i talk to alot all the time on the phone, but cant seem to hold a long conversation with him when he is home. i think if u can ever find it in your heart to trust again, and you let her know, things can probably work, but maybe not, it all depends if she has stop loving, because once that love is gone there is no way of wining her back. am telling you this from experience am in the same position too, but the thing i dont love him anymore.
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