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*lueman25
writes:I've been with my girlfreind 3 years now, and i think we may be coming to the end of our relationship, she says im too nice to her, and when im with her it just doesnt feel the same as the 1st year we dated. I'm her 1st serious boyfriend and she says im suffocating her. I have gave her space and things dont seem to be changing much, is there anything you can suggest that will bring us back together? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): 'Smothering/suffocating' is subjective.
One one extreme, some partners can be excessively needy, jealous and insecure.
But (as quiet-echo suggests) on the other hand someone who is bored or dissatisfied with their relationship can start to feel "smothered" when their partner shows whar are actually perfectly normal signs of affection and a desire to spend time with them.
The only thing you can do is to continue to give her space, and focus more on your own activities too. Perhaps give her slightly more space than she's asked for, so she starts to miss you.
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reader, Shyclau  +, writes (13 December 2010):
It's hard to say if it will work out or not. In my opinion I think she
Is not appreciating you for treating her good and wanting to be with
Her. I my baby daddy treated me good and made me feel suffocating. I say be who you are and you will find the right girl who loves you for you.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Can you give more info as to how your relationship has been over these 3 years? Were you different 3 years ago to how you are now?
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