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writes:Hi, I don't have a DearCupid account, I'm using it on behalf of a friend. I'm 19 years old, and I'm female.I live in a part of Australia that is a bit remote from the rest. I've been dating my boyfriend for a couple of years. We've broken up a couple of times but always find our way back to each other in the end. Unfortunately though, he's with the navy and is always away and I barely get to see him. Every now and then he lies alot, and he may go overboard a bit on his drinking, but I love him!But, on the other part of Australia, where I previously used to live, I have a very special friend! He's great, he's smart, he's precious! He's so nice! And I love him too!Part of me wants to stay, but part of me really wants to go over, and that would be a major move, and I'm unsure of what to do... I'm so confused! Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): i know this answer is probably going to be frowned upon becuase im sure most people will say to stay faithful and wait for him but if you have already been with navy guy for a while and continue having issues why not try something new? your not entirley satisfied with your relationship and thats not okay, i am also 19 and my bf is in the marines and the distance thing did become sort of an issue, but we were both up front about what was happening, while he's gone i am living the single life and so is he, if you have feelings for this other guy already and dont act on it you will ask yourself for the rest of your life "what could have been" and that is the worst feeling ever, believe me i know from experince you said that you and navy bf always find your way back to eachother so if its meant to be it will be, but wether or not you decide to be honest about everything is completley up to you, i really hope this helps because as a young girl you need to enjoy life and explore new things, people, places and everything good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): You love two at once? GO with the one you are more compatible with, the only you can live with peaceably, the one you can enjoy activities with, talk to but also feel comfortable with silences.
-Tante Vic
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reader, chita22  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 I think u need to move on you're dating because u need to find out what u like and dislike about a guy,so when u do find the right 1 you'll know that's why u get to break up when your dating. I say move on to the other guy try him life is to short to waste it. Good luck!!
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reader, harleygirl2010  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 I agree with dirtball. What exactly is your guy lying about? If you think that it would be better for you to go to the other guy and leave the current one the go on and do it. From the sounds of it your relationship isn't getting better. Do what your gut tells you is the best one to go with. Hope things get better.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 December 2010):
 I think you should leave the make up/break up relationship you're in and try it with the new guy. You're currently in a dead end relationship. The cycle you're in won't get better. I vote to change it up and try something new.
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