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writes:hi all, my question is this.... How do you know when someone is coming to you, booty call iv heard it called lol with just getting what they can from you or just scared and have feelings for you and unsure i hope iv worded this right its took me 3 days to think about it thanks all xxxxx
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Ok, you worded your question very well, after 3 days of worrying.
I think in your heart, you will know if you are in a relationship, or just a booty call for this guy. Apart from him calling you for sex, do you do anything else together? Do you go out, to the movies, for a meal, for drinks? Are you a couple, or does he only contact you for hot sex?
Men are horrible at times, I should know! I used to call a woman for sex, maybe two or three times a week, I would never actually go out of her flat with her, unless we were getting takeaway food. She never seemed to mind, and I never bothered to question if we were more than that. In the end, I stopped going round there, and lost touch. Is this the type of deal you want?
If you want more, then you need to put your foot down and tell him. If he disappears, then I'm afraid you have your answer. If he wants a relationship, then well done. At the moment, you are just a booty call. The longer you let him get away with it, the more he will take advantage.
Good luck.
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