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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex 3 different times but it never seems to happen as we plan, we're both virgins and 18.I've gone on the pill after the first time he couldn't get the condom on, and he didn't want me to risk us getting pregnant. The second time, he just couldn't get it in, and the 3rd, it just hurt too much when he entered me a tiny bit, which leaves me to confused if we're still virgins. I really love him and want to give myself to him, but I'm worried it's never going to happen. He says he'll move at my pace but he's moving away to uni in September and I want things to do right. Any suggestions?
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reader, imcurioustoo  +, writes (23 June 2009):
Well tips on the sex.. I remeber my first time its painful I know but the trick is to set aside the awkwardness and relax your body and let him love you.. You need to relax the pelvic muscles and it would probably be helpful to make sure that your female area is moist enough for compfy penetration .. And also considering your both virgins it'll be quick to so no worries... but you really should consider the fact he's moving .. Don't give yourself to someone who's leaving unless for certain he's the right guy.. For me I just knew and we've been together for 1 year 2 months... lemme know what happens
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