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reader, citic101  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 yes .... go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): age is just a number regardless of the situation...x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Anything is possible, but I don't think it would really work unless the younger party is at least in their mid to late 20's. In their late teens and early 20's people are just beginning to figure out who they are and need space to experience life. Eventually the younger person is going to want that space and break it off. Also it would be wrong to try to deny them that space and the fullness of the multitude of life's experiences that come in the early 20's.
The older party looking for something serious won't have the year or two to waste on the younger person who won't be able to and rightfully shouldn't make that kind of commitment. Of course, if it's just fun and games then why not? Smoking hot is smoking hot whether they're 25 or 45.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 That makes you a Puma (after your 40's, you'd be a Cougar), and that is extremely hip and Cosmo approved right now. Young guys: they can go for hours, take direction well and are EXTREMELY grateful!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 I think that we're all very open-minded here at DC. The only problem is the amount of stick - good and bad - that you are going to get from your friends. You can probably count on it - That AND a lot of nosey *NOYB* questions!!!
The reason that I bring this up is that my 22 year old was dating a 30 year old, and her friends all called him the crypt keeper... lol! In the end, all that matters will be your mutual expectations. My daughter was dating for fun, and he was serious and ready for a wife - two totally different things - so just make sure that you and she are on the same page, and that you don't mind the comments! Good Luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 June 2009):
 Not a problem in my book. Personally I'm not much for big age gaps ( been there done that - got the T-shirt). But I think it's really up to the individuals.
Are you embarrassed? Can you take him out in public? If it's no to the first and yes to the second, you got a start.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 yep thats perfectly fine. why shouldnt they date? if they have things in common and are happy with one another why not? life's too short!
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reader, JSBach +, writes (22 June 2009):
If you're comfortable with it, it's OK. If you're the sort of person who worries about what your friends think, then that's more of a problem.
If you're wondering why he's attracted to you, I can suggest a good reason: teenage girls can be a bit manic, whereas older women are a lot calmer. That can be very attractive for a teenage boy if they have had their fill of hysterial scenes.
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reader, PVT_Jersey +, writes (22 June 2009):
if both parties consent, than why not? i won't lie and say you won't get dirty looks if walking down the street holding hands, but F them.
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reader, Imayknow1980 +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Its fine if you feel that a guy of 18 is emotionally mature enough to give you the kind of relationship that you want. Good Luck!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Okay by me. Is it okay by you?
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