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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi im currently at uni and in a long term ish relationship, i have my holidays at the moment and have been spending alot more time with my girlfriend. i see her at least 3 times a week as oppose to every oher weekend when im studying. The problem is recently i have felt that something isnt right with her, shes very irritable alot of the time and said that she wanted a little space as shes not used to seeing me all the time, at first the alarm bell rang and i thought right this is basically the end so i agreed with her that we should leave it a few days. So i didnt text her and a day later she invites me round. it seems she wants one thing and then acts as if nothings happened or said. the sex is the same i never go round hers and not have sex and its always consistently good for both of us so i dont believe there is a problem there.i also checked her messages on her phone and noticed she has had alot of texts from a guy she works with who before me she slept with and told me about it. but some of the texts implied that they have seen each other outside of work. it is important to mention that i have not witnessed any loss of affection and i am still included in things i would like some advice please
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Tell her how you feel, you need communication in your relationship! If you aren't happy with the outcome then leave! X
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