A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi I'm a 28 year old guy. I like younger girls between 18 and 25 but all I attract are her moms!! women who are like 35, 40 45 and older. Most of them are divorced and with kids. Some of them looking for a father to their kids, and I don't think i'm ready for that. I don't know if it's my personality that attracts them, I consider myself a mature young man, but I'm unmarried with no kids, and I just need the same in a woman. I don't want to be me. Most of them have everything they need but a man, some of them are financially set, but I want a girl with "low mileage" and "little baggage" if you know what I mean. It's just frustating sometimes
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 June 2009):
 I don't see the problem in their liking you. However, if they are not who you're looking for, just say you're not interested and wait until you find someone you like.
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reader, redpopstick  +, writes (23 June 2009):
It comes down to:* Opportunity* Perception* SignalsIf all you ever do is go to supermarkets, the local bingo and the chess club, how can you expect to meet younger women? Try to find places/events/clubs/you get the idea that would attract both your age group and the one below. This works the other way as well. If you're going to the nightclubs you're being compared against lets face it, the probably better looking and better phsyical men around, so try to get a good medium and be open to new things.They need to see you as part of their life. So be open minded (although true to yourself) about new things, ready to compromise, maybe write a list of things you want in a woman, and what they would want from you, and change accordingly.Signals. No point perving over the 18 year old but giving her no sign that you like her. Be subtle but noticeable, so you linger in her mind.Also, consider that you may need to spruce yourself up a bit to attract the younger ages, harsh but true. People are naturally judgemental, just as you are about the women with milage. It seems your more pulled down by the idea of responsibility than age, so don't cast away these older woman but use them for a better perspective of women in general and also to meet single and no baggage ladies through them.Hope this helps
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