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*adydela
writes:I have this problem, I like this really cool guy, he is really nice cool and sweet and he is my friend so I got to know him really well. Here is my problem he has a girlfriend. I don't mind that and all but I found and I saw and heard that he was using his girlfriend. I know him better than that to use someone but when I went to talk to him about he said: look this is my personal life so stay out of it. How do I convince him to stop using her?
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reader, ladydela +, writes (23 June 2009):
ladydela is verified as being by the original poster of the question look one day i heard him say it to one of his guy freinds i heard with my own two ears i didnt getit from gossip
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reader, citris +, writes (22 June 2009):
 When a guy tells you to stay out of something, 99.9% of the time they mean it. If you are simply friends with him, great and you at least tried, but hey, it's his life and he has to make his own mistakes. Be his friend and let it go. If there's something else you are interested in this for, which it sounds like you are...maybe you need to step back and take a second look at things. You say this guy is cool and you're great friends and he's a great guy...what great guy would use any girl? what great guy would be so cruel and two faced as to use one person and be so sweet to you? Yeah I would say he's probably not as honest and trustworthy as you would like to think. Otherwise, whatever you "found, saw and heard" may very well be none of your business and possibly even taken out of context. The short of it: let this one go, it's not your fight nor is it really your problem. walk away.
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