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Not sure of my feelings for him or what to do about it?

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Question - (22 June 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age , *ueeny63 writes:

Hello: I finally went out on a date with a man I've been corresponding to via online (where we met) After a terrible breakup with my (cheater,liar) this guy has been calling me, sending me beautiful texts, and ecards.

We finally met, I was nervous I haven't been alone with someone since the jerk!! The first date was very nice, I like him, but no sparks, the second date was a little less impressive. My car stalled on the highway, and I was stranded in the soaking rain, but my date came over, we tried jumping the car, but it was dead!!! So we had it towed and went out for a nice dinner, although I was upset, he was kind. Of course he had to drive me home in the pouring rain, 40 minutes away, but all well...Well let me re-track my date does business in the city, unfortunately he lost his blackberry where he has all his connections with his clients. etc...so he was upset, and of course he said that by going out with me would make his evening so much delightful..so I fell!!! lol...

Being that my car had to be towed Sunday morning...I had to get to this place where my car was, I was so upset, I sort of get very anxious when things do go accordingly, well he did text me Sunday morning Father's Day to tell me he was going into the city to send some packages that he was having problems with a client. and that he would call me later. He never mentioned how the car was...but then he called me around 6pm to ask me about the car and what was happening.

His daughter had given him tickets to a Broadway play, which they enjoy going to, he then said he would call me later. I know they may have arrived late, and he has an early class in the morning, I usually text him, but I just don't think he is interested, if he were I think he would of called earlier...I may be acting like a child, but I've been hurt and I'm cautious....He was a little too passionate, but I quickly put a stop to that. I hope he will not try it again, I'm thinking I may turned him off...I have these conflicting thoughts, I like him alot, but there are no butterflies...Today, I feel like telling him that I don't think there should be a third date, but would I then miss him or is feeling the same way because he did not get anything from me.

I may be overeacting over this, but I try to analyze everything, and before he hurts me I want to stop him from that by telling him no more calls or dates. What should I do??? He has his school concert tonight, I usually wish him a good afternoon via text, but I don't feel like it, HELP!!!

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