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36-40,
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writes:im a closet lesbian, nobody knows im gay... im just wondering, how does it feel like to love a MAN? it's kinda sad that i can't appreciate them. even though i have had a few guys who went crazy over me and did a lot of really sweet stuff.. but im not moved or happy. not at all. but with girls things are different. i get excited over the tiniest thing she does.SO, THIS QUESTION GOES OUT TO ALL BISEXUAL women...genuine bisexual women only--women who have loved men and women: what's it like falling in love with a man? does it feel the same as falling for a woman? what are the differences (not physically)?
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reader, betty_black  +, writes (22 June 2009):
 Ive had one girlfriend and a few experiences with girls and many boyfriends and i have to honestly say i agree with the other two, it is exactly the same. Its serious on the same level, the only thing that is different is the sex and you stil get the same emotions from sex. Dont worry about never loving a man you cant force yourself into it. Im heterosexual and i almost forced myself into the relationship with a woman just to see how it felt, and it felt wrong, even though i loved her, i realised later that i was basically her friend and i didnt enjoy the sexual experiences at all. Stick to how you were born, and as little miss icky said, embrace your true feelings!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit feels the same? serious?
why am i finding it so hard to be attracted to men!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): Its the same exact thing except the gender is different. Love is love! It doesn't matter who its with. I've had girlfriends && I'm currently with my first boyfriend. All that matters is that you have true feelings. && I think it feels exactly the same.
Dont be sad that you can't appreciate a man. Embrace your true feelings! Never feel bad for who you are.
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