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writes:Thank you in advance to those who take the time to read and answer my question. I work with a guy who I like and I think he likes me too. Due to the fact that I am just out of a long term relationship though, I am in no hurry to get involved again. There is a woman I work with who likes him too which is fine. She is not playing nice here though as she watches like a hawk if I even talk to him and has even run to him with trivia about my job performance. For some reason, he seems nervous about what she thinks. Again, I am standing back here. As a staff we all went out for drinks the other night. As she and I walked home she said he seemed 'funny'and waited for me to say something. I did not. Although I like this guy I just do not have the energy to deal with this adolescant stuff and wonder if I should leave it alone. I am up for a transfer to another department and he has asked a number of times if I am staying. She is so after him and gets funny if I even talk to him. Why is he nervous and not as nice to me when she is around and very interested when she is not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009): Why don't f you ask him? He is probably nervous because he is aware of what is going on and doesn't want to be in the middle of it.
I would transfer departments if it were me and if he is not your supervisor or in your department and your company has no rules against co-workers dating, then he would be freer to ask you out.
Not that that should be the reason for your transfer, do what is best for you in the long run money wise, responsibility wise, etc.
Forget about the other woman, you can't do anything to stop her and things will take care of themselves.
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