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anonymous
writes:i was sort of in a relationship with this lad.. we both knew we were exclusive althought neither of us had said it.. and he went to meet up with this girl that he later ditched me for after we had a bit of a fall out. He got into a relationship with her.. and i got back with my ex.. more on the fact that 'Brian' had messed me about but he broke up with her.. i still have really strong feelings for him and he told me a few nights ago that he still has feelings for me.. The only problem is i feel like im bringing up that fact he hurt me up loads and i bring her up all the time.. he was a complete and utter idiot to me, but he is uaually dead nice. If we ever do get back together im not sure i could trust him not to hurt me again and i would feel that my gaurd would constantly be up.i love this boy should i give it another go or is the way i feel about the situation going to change things? Thanx x
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reader, spinnaker89  +, writes (22 June 2009):
people can change, you just need to keep your guard up. He might have just seen that you were the one for him, and in order to truely care for someone you need to forgive, and if you cant, then you'll never be happy with him. So i suggest you take it slow and see how it goes, you have to remember that you need to be more of friends than a couple for it to work.
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